Category: Reflections

  • A Funeral and A Birthday

    A Funeral and A Birthday

    On Saturday, I started the day with a funeral and ended it with my birthday dinner. When the funeral was set for the 15th and I was asked to help organize the reception, I paused. Without question, without hesitation, Ruben’s funeral and the celebration of his life with his family and friends far, far outweighed…

  • The World Is A Bit Darker Today

    The World Is A Bit Darker Today

    A close friend, Ruben Garza, passed away last night. He was 37.

  • Celebrating Death

    Hours ago, the news media announced that the U.S. Military had killed Osama Bin Laden, the reason “terror” is in the political vocabulary.  President Obama confirmed it a short time later: This news caused me to pause for a moment: Osama Bin Laden is responsible for the deaths of thousands between the various operations under his…

  • Preparing For Lent

    Lent is just around the corner, starting with Ash Wednesday on March 9th. Vanessa and I are starting to plan our Lenten observances and there is one thing that is common this year to every year. When we decide to give up something for Lent, we never want to start early. Lately, I’ve been spending…

  • Almost Zero Hour

    We’re due February 16th. That’s not very long from now. There’s plenty to do, but at the same time, we’ve been through it before so it’ll be fine. In all of the final preparations for the new one, I hadn’t stopped to reflect on Olivia in a few months. I still have this mindset of…

  • Young Life Cut Short

    Perhaps it is because Notre Dame is the story-tale Catholic university. Or perhaps, moreso, it is because it is the alma mater of my wife. In either case, I follow Notre Dame closer than most and I feel that I share a very tiny part of their joys and sorrows. Yesterday’s news of a ND student…